Human are complex. I mean people are complex in various ways. They are unpredictable and to certain extend hardly to be understood. That’s my opinion as a human….let’ss take one example….
The day before eid..or orang nogori call it as ‘hari mantai’ which means ‘preparations for eid’. Normally the daughters at home will busy wthh the house cores at the kitchen like goring ape yang patut…potong bawang besar, bawang besar, bawang putih…all kinds of ingredients needed in preparing traditional malay dishes. Then, suddenly the mother who at first let the daughter do the cooking according to the daughter’s style will interrupt and say..”nie macam nie hah sepatutnya…ehhh kecahnye..potong nie dulu..and bla..bla…” too many comments although at first she was the one who initiate that the daughter will do the cooking. Then, during the cooking time..everything seems wrong to the respective mother’s sight and she started to make a sarcastic comments…then the daughter who at first really eager to do the cooking will be demotivated and at certain level will start to argue with the mother. The question is…kurang ajarkah si anak itu? I mean Malays are well known with manners but have we ever think that sometimes the malay traditions simply punish the act as kurang ajar…like when the student argue about the facts and the teching style with his or her lecturers…and the Malays mannerism will simply said that the student is kurang ajar. I think we should make a justified measurement on what is kurang ajar and the perspective from the Islam teachings.
So, definitely humans are complex…tolong salah ..x tolong lagi salah…cakap salah..x cakap lagi salah…dats the dilemma.
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