loses...

Salam readers...when you guys read the title definitely the question mark will appear on your minds...me heartbroken? My first word is human..so i am a homosapiens and got feelings too. While i was writing this particular matter on my blog..i was listening to my fav male-band(not a boy band lorh) Il Divo from their first album..the song title is 'Feeling'.

Honestly speaking, i always in sombre mood whenever the month of august is coming. i dunno why...recently i become moody and yeah like other person and on this earth everything has its own limitations. Back to my august history, if the other Malaysians are excited to celebrate our Merdeka...yeah im also excited and im very sure my dad will display our beloved 'jalur gemilang' on the top my minang roof.....(owh yeah very proud to be a malaysian), the month of august just bring back my sad memory...yeah it almost 5 years.

5 years ago...i lost two my school buddies in fatal car accident. one of them was with whom i always walking and sharing my secrets....diet together..walking from additional class together..skipping class together...tuition together although she wasnt in the same class wif me. the other one was my crime partner a.k.a classmate..hahahaha..i always smile when i said dat. She was the one and only person dat u use aussie style whenever we had conversation like d common phrase we use was ,"Let's take arvo". Till my english teacher, Mdm. Tan warned us in our essay exercise...'be careful wif ur aussie slang'.

But. i lost all dat moments when i got a sms from my buddies seetha and farehah which mentioned about both of them got involved in damn serious car accidents. I felt like going back to tampin at dat moment..but i got very important meeting 2morow morning. so, i just pray to Allah dat my frenz are safe. Unfortunately, after an hour..i wasnt very sure who told me d bad news...whether it came from Seetha, Syafiqah or Farehah about their death.(i cnt remember). what i remember was..it took me almost one hour to accept the news. My heart at that moment like a crystal glass thrown onto the floor.....but my angah said i dun cry even a single tear, i was terribly shocked according to her.

During the night, i just reciting the Holy Quran to calm myself since those two are non-muslims. I pray to Allah to give me strength to go through this really heavy feelings. Then , immediately i went back to Tampin after i fulfill my responsibilities at my working place.

Finally, i was crying when i visited my buddies' families. When Shoba's mum hugged me and crying..i couldn't control my feelings anymore. Like my frenz said..'better for you to cry,,since it will lessen your burden'..yeah he was correct.

to my late buddies:

Kalai- finally i follow what u advised me...yeah u knw me so well even better from myself. now, i am studying about politics, law and government. No more lab, blood and white coat. Definitely it wanst me.


Shoba-i will lead a happy life..always cheerful though now i am no longer good in using aussie slang. YEAH..i hope i will get a man who accept me the way i am....

'without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods'-Aristotle

Wassalam...

a good hijab....

Salam.

Well, yesterday i was having a bad experience to buy a new hijab for me. Since i'm a shayla- one who always using shawls instead of 'd arianni type of hijab'...so i decided why not i try to wear it sometimes since it looks easy to wear. You don't have to tie tidily or using brooches if you wanna wear the 'arianni hijab' just simply put it on and you're done. However, after an hour looking and searching the perfect 'arianni type hijab', i realized most of that type of hijab were extremely short, means it did not cover your upper part-the breast line and the back. OMG...wat kind of hijab it is. Since the main purpose of hijab is to cover not only the hair but also the figure of womens' assets k. Basically, the short hijab is not a proper attire to cover the muslimah aurah. Well, at the end i decided not to buy any...hahahhahaha wat a waste huh.

p/s: i will try to find hadith on muslimah aurah soon...

love ur holy Quran.....

love ur holy Quran guys....believe the kalamullah is the greatest medicine for all kind of diseases from physical to psychological. Like me, im a coward person..it means i don't like to watch horror movies and even cannot hear or see the horror advertisement....extreme huh. Then. i realize why i become so coward and easily frightened by eerie stories or stupid jokes. Then i realized my greatest mistakes.....for the entire previous semester, i was avoiding Al-Quran, the greatest holy book. MasyaAllah...(plz forgive me my Lord).

So, here i would like to take this opportunity to share the benefit of reading Quran....i choose the 2nd surah...Al-Baqarah...
p/s: i dun have to translate d benefits of reciting the verse from Al-Baqarah so i simply copy and paste it k.....

INTIPATINYA

Antara sifat surah al-Madaniah ialah pembicaraan tentang kaedah hukum syarak dan menyelesaikan konflik perundangan yang mengatur kehidupan umat Islam. Antaranya:-

1. Hukum-hukum akidah, ibadat, muamalat, akhlak, urusan perkahwinan, perceraian, idah dan lain-lain lagi.

2. Bermula dengan penerangan sifat-sifat mukmin sejati, kafir dan munafiqin dengan penjelasan hakikat iman, kufur, nifak dan bandingan antara golongan yang bahagia dan rugi.

3. Gambaran awal kejadian manusia. Adam daripada pembentukannya hingga kejutan- kejutan ajaib sebagai kemuliaan yang Allah kurniakan kepada manusia dari alam syurga kepada dunia.

4. Iblis sebagai musuh utama manusia dalam penyesatan dan tipu helah.

5. Penjelasan panjang lebar tentang Bani Israel daripada Ahli Kitab kerana mereka berjiran dengan orang Islam di Madinah al-Munawarah. Justeru itu orang-orang Islam diingatkan tentang tipu daya dan perancangan jahat mereka yang disaluti sifat mazmumah seperti khianat, tipu, mungkir janji hingga segala bentuk jenayah dan penyelewengan. Perbincangan tersebut melebihi 1/3 surah ini.

6. Surah al-Baqarah juga membicarakan permasalahan undang-undang kerana orang Islam dalam peringkat permulaan pembentukan Daulah Islamiyah memerlukan kepada Manhaj Rabbani dan Tasyri' Samawi dalam menjalani kehidupan seperti ibadat atau muamalat.

Secara ringkasnya seperti berikut:

a. Hukum puasa secara terperinci.

b. Hukum haji dan umrah.

c. Hukum jihad fi sabilillah.

d. Permasalahan institusi ke keluargaan daripada perkah winan, talak, penyusuan, idah, haram menikahi perempuan musyrikah termasuk bersama isteri dalam haid hingga kepada hukum-hukum yang berkaitan dengan keluarga kerana daripadanya benih pertama dalam pembentukan masyarakat yang lebih besar.

7. Surah ini mengutarakan permasalahan jenayah riba yang menggoncangkan keutuhan masyarakat dengan penegasan amalan riba sebagai pengisytiharan perang daripada Allah dan Rasul kepada mereka yang terlibat dengan amalan riba.

8. Kemudian surah ini membentangkan ancaman pada Hari Akhirat yang menakutkan, manusia dibalas mengikut amalannya; baik dibalas baik dan jahat dengan hukuman jahat. Iaitu ayat yang terakhir diturunkan daripada al-Baqarah.

9. Surah ini dikhatamkan dengan taujih dan gesaan kepada orang mukmin untuk bertaubat dan kembali dengan rendah diri kepada Allah serta sentiasa meminta doa kepada Allah daripada musuh, di akhiri dengan permohonan dan kebahagiaan di dunia dan akhirat.

Syeikh Muhammad Rasyid Redha dalam tafsirnya, al-Manar mengemukakan khulasah surah al-Baqarah daripada dakwah Islam, hukum-hukum dan kaedah- kaedahnya:

1. Dakwah Islam yang umum dengan mengemukakan pembahagian manusia kepada tiga kumpulan; beriman, kafir dan munafik dengan menyebut natijah hukuman dan mithalan secara lengkap.


2. Arahan kepada umat Islam secara panjang lebar digabungkan antara tauhid dan iman dengan permasalahan cabang fikah. Disebut lebih daripada 21 perkara. Bermula dengan mendirikan solat, mengeluarkan zakat, haram mengerjakan sihir, hukum qisas, wasiat bagi kedua-dua ibu bapa, hukum- hukum puasa hinggalah kepada penutup doa.

3. Kaedah-kaedah syarak yang umum juga dinyatakan melalui surah al-Baqarah sebanyak 33 kaedah. Bermula dengan kaedah mengikut hidayah Allah yang diturunkan kepada rasul mewajibkan kebahagiaan hingga kepada kaedah terakhir, iaitu binaan asas-asas agama dalam akidah dan hikmah tasyri' mengikut akalan yang diistinbatkan daripada kebenaran, keadilan dan maslahat hamba. Beliau menutup perbincangan ini dengan katanya, ``Inilah yang dibuka Allah kepadaku daripada lembaran surah al-Baqarah jika ditadabbur mungkin banyak lagi.''


Menariknya surah ini dimuqadimahkan dengan sifat-sifat mukmin dan dikhatamkan dengan doa orang-orang mukmin untuk menunjukkan kemunasabahan antara permulaan dengan akhiran dan kesemua surah secara keseluruhannya. Maha suci Kalam Allah daripada kekurangan.

FADHILATNYA

Di antara fadilat surah al-Baqarah seperti yang dinaqalkan oleh Ibnu Kathir :

1. Daripada Ma'qal bin Yasar bahawa Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda, Surah al-Baqarah sebagai bonggol al-Quran (puncak seperti di belakang unta yang paling tinggi). (Riwayat Imam Ahmad seperti lafaz ini juga daripada Abu Hurairah yang diriwayatkan oleh Tirmizi).

2. Daripada Abu Hurairah bahawa Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda, Jangan kamu jadikan rumah-rumahmu seperti perkuburan kerana rumah yang dibaca padanya surah al-Baqarah tidak dimasuki syaitan. (Riwayat Muslim, Tirmizi, an-Nasai' dan Imam Ahmad dalam Musnadnya. Tirmizi berkata, hadis hasan sahih).

3. Daripada Anas bin Malik katanya, Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w., Sesungguhnya syaitan keluar dari rumah apabila mendengar surah al-Baqarah dibaca.

4. Daripada Abu Ubaid daripada Abdullah bin Mas`ud katanya, `` Sesungguhnya syaitan lari dari rumah yang didengar padanya surah al-Baqarah.'' (Riwayat an-Nasai' dalam Al-Yaum wa Lailah, al-Hakim dalam Mustadrak katanya, sahih isnad.

5. Daripada Abu Hurairah katanya, Rasulullah s.a.w. pernah menghantar pasukan dan dilantik orang yang paling muda menjadi ketua disebabkan beliau menghafaz surah al-Baqarah. (Riwayat Tirmizi, an-Nasai' dan Ibnu Majah).

6. Daripada Asyad bin Khudair katanya, ketika beliau sedang membaca al-Baqarah pada suatu malam, tiba -tiba kudanya yang ditambat melompat-lompat, lantas dia berhenti dan kudanya pun berhenti, sebaliknya apabila dibaca kudanya terus melompat. Kemudian dia melihat ke langit seperti gugusan cahaya lampu. Keesokan pagi dilaporkannya kepada Rasulullah s.a.w., dia ditanya, Adakah kamu tahu itu semua?'' Jawabnya, ``Tidak'' Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w. ``Itulah malaikat yang turun mendengar suaramu, sekiranya kamu membacanya sampai pagi nescaya orang ramai dapat melihat cahaya tersebut. (Riwayat Bukhari).

7. Daripada Buraidah katanya, Aku duduk di sisi Nabi s.a.w. dan mendengar baginda bersabda, Pelajarilah surah al-Baqarah kerana mengambilnya adalah berkat dan meninggalkannya adalah kerugian dan lemah dikuasai oleh tukang sihir atau syaitan. (Riwayat Imam Ahmad).

Sebenarnya terdapat banyak lagi hadis-hadis berhubung kelebihan surah al- Baqarah. Tetapi yang lebih penting adalah amalan bacaan, bukan semata-mata maklumat.

WAJAH MUNASABAH

Imam Rasyid Redha melalui kitabnya, al Manar menyebut, ``Tidaklah perlu menerangkan kemunasabahan antaranya dengan al - Fatihah, sekalipun telah nyata kerana ia tidak diletakkan selepasnya kerana itu.

Imam al-Alusi dalam kitabnya, Ruh al Maani memberi huraian kemungkinan surah al-Baqarah selepas al-Fatihah. Katanya, ``Bahawa surah al-Fatihah terkandung padanya penerangan rububiyyah dan kedua, ubudiyyah dan memohon hidayah dalam maksud-maksud agama, dan ketiga, tuntutan-tuntutan keyakinan. Begitu juga surah al- Baqarah terkandung penerangan berkaitan makrifat Rab. Pertama, pada ayat ketiga dan kedua, ibadat.

Selepas itu permohonan keperluan secara bersegera atau bertempoh. Begitu juga al-Fatihah berakhir dengan permintaan hidayah. Sama juga pada awal al-Baqarah iaitu isyarat kepada hidayah bagi orang yang bertaqwa.

Allah muqadimahkan Fatihah dengan perkara zahir dan setiap yang zahir terdapat bathin. Justeru itu dimuqadimahkan surah ini (al-Baqarah) dengan batin sirnya, iaitu Alif Lam Mim.

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i love aston martin...so sexiey!

simply true....

Thursday,July 08 2010...2.30 P.M..
1st BEL class for the new sem...i just wonder who is Tuan Hj Sha'ban. hahahah so scary dowh..since he is the senior language lecturer and as usual there are a lot of stories about senior lecturers like...dat lecturer is damn choosy, hot-tempered, bias and others. Honestly, when i saw him outside the class waiting for the other course to finish...i just said..OMG..he is. well, he is my first personal opinion.

The interesting part of my fisrt BEL class was when he said that...if you married to someone who is non-intelectual, u actually created 7 generations of non-intelectual..hahahahah...i must say it is hillarious like 'sumpahan mahsuri tujuh keturunan'. Seriously, it was really funny till i laugh like crazy. I think it is true, since the intellectual level does have affect to the person's behaviour and lifestyle. Let's take one example, if a woman married to a school leaver, who cannot understand the lifestyle of a career woman, contra in opinion and perception.......so it will lead to may conflicts. so basically is true for all women out there..bak kata orang 'kahwin sekufu', it does not mean that we create negative perceptions to those non-graduate man but when we are talking about intellectual...it means that guy must posses certain quality like business skills although he is not graduated.

MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING, BUT WITHOUT MONEY YOU ARE NOTHING

the above statement was quoted from my faculty lecturer, Mr. Zulhilmi. It is true actually, money is essential to ensure you lead a proper life. In my opinion, what creates different between a graduate and non-graduate is just a paper that that called a certificate. The most prominent thing is the skills u got. So, a man does not have to obtain Phd, that can add value to them by getting handsome income...hhahahaah...sound materialistic huh. But, it is true guys. So. for the ladies and guys out there, selecting partners like building a diplomatic relationship. You need to ensure that you and your partner can co-operate together and understand each other.

p/s: apela yg aku merapu nie.....wassalam