hijabies dilemma..

Assalammualaikum....

First of all, i would like to begin by apologizing to all sistaz out there if what i will discuss may hurt or touch anybody feelings or dignity. The title say it all...'Hijabiez Dilemma' make it clear that the article is about the muslimah who choose to cover their hair. When i said about 'dilemma'..it refers to the hijabies trends nowadays, what i really means is how they carry the hijab on their head with their attire.

Recently, there is popular issue about 'bonggol unta hijab' but i choose not to talk about it since im not really sure about it....what i'm going to discuss here about the attitude in choosing clothes to be matched with their hijabs. The latest trends that can be seen in Malaysia is legging fever. Everywhere we can see woman or girls wear it....regardless whether is day or night..formal or informal event. The problem is now..it seems that the muslimah are trying to be fashionable without thinking or analyzing whether the trends is suitable for them to follow or not. For example, a girl who wear long sleeve shirts(alhamdulillah at 1st when i saw her) but when my eyes roll to the bottom part..i mean the legs, the girl wore a super tight legging(it's metallic or a bit shining) so it make it noticeable for others that it was legging and tight. I don't know what they think when opt to wear hijab with legging..yeah it is like long pants but it SUPER TIGHT...and it is not same with boot-cut jeans or spandex long pants. So, definitely, legging does not fall in the same group of long pants.

So, sisters i personally think that legging is not a long pants. Seriously..it is not a proper attire for a hijabies to wear legging in the public. Wassalam...

TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL....

Recently, i just having a dilemma within myself. I keep thinking whether it is alright or not to have this matter....feeling. Then, i began to undergo self-analysis in order to determine that matter. After lots of discussion within myself , i decided to make one BIG DECISION IN MY HISTORY....based on the motion-Honesty is the best policy . Well, since many people said im very straight forward person in positive way(not 'angkat bakul" or it is more to be called as geek@nerd)...so it's easy to adapt that 'policy' with my situation at that moment. Then. i decideD to tell THE RESPECTIVE PERSON about that MATTER. GUESS WHAT?...i started to feel like committing the biggest mistake ever in my life. Guys...in this real world..not everybody can accept the fact..even though the 'fact' does not bring any harm. Supposedly, when we are doing a good thing, the positive outcome will be followed later but not in this case. It's still pending, but as a woman...i got instinct that it will turn to be bad.

Honesty pays, but it doesn't seem to pay enough to suit some people. Kin Hubbard...it is very true.

However, i still believe that the truth will remain forever.......

i think it's better to be honest rather on pretending...although sometimes you need to lose some of your ego or dignity. It is because only truth remain forever-Hidayah Ramli

SO WHICH ONE IS BETTER..TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL???

wassalam......Let's support FREEDOM FLOTILLA!

HARAM IS STILL HARAM...

Haram is haram..u got it huh?. however, for some reasons people seem to choose or favor to commit the 'haram' things and to make it worse..they are really proud to tell everybody that..THEY COMMIT TO DO THE 'HARAM' ACT. let's take an example in my student's life...

in the lift....
*joker: wei...2nite aku bawak toyol 4 d test man....jom kongsi ramai2

i feel really annoyed with that statement...WTF!..KO NAK BUAT JAHAT TOKSAHLAH NAK SHOW OFF...U R SOB!......i said to myself. The main point here...if u want to commit some wrongful act which is definitely illegal and haram...u dont have to publicize it to the public. It makes other people like students from other faculty will have bad perceptions towards us. Kalau dah malas macam aku..study je la takat yang korang mampu....but you dont have to cheat man.I do believe what we did will determine our future. We may become successful..but can we guarantee the success will remain forever. To my *joker....it's all about Bless from Allah the Almighty and those who deliver the 'ilmu'....wassalam.

war within myself...

A war. What you guys think when the word war pop-out in your mind.....violence..bloody...terror actions and all that relates to the miltary and damages. Unfortunately, the biggest war that many of us fail to fight is WAR WITHIN OURSELVES. Like me as a student..i struggling to fight my laziness yang tahap gaban. (aku tahu sume kawan2 rapat tahu aku malas....malas nak jln2, malas nak study)...sigh. my war is my laziness....hehheehh and i still doing my best attempt to get over it. Plus, i got CSC TEST on wednesday night and we will see whether i can overcome my 'war'. Being a 24 years old woman makes me think about life and love. yeah..its quite pressurising to think about it. Recently, i was having some sort of 'war' with my own principle. Damn....when we talk about emotions or feelings...sometimes it's really hard to explain. it's very subjective like my recent conversation with my hommies

hommies: aku suke Awal( d actor n host). die boleh dikira handsome untuk pelakon lelaki zaman sekarang
me: Awal tue biase jer......(ooops i dunno what my frenz thought when i said so)
hommies: mata org lain2( some sort like dat)

so...yeah feelings/opinions are varied and it colour our world (dont you agree?). owh..i lamost forgot to mention about my 'war' with my principle. DO u believe that sometimes that love comes naturally....without any reason or justification. Frankly speaking, when it comes to feelings, im kinda 'blur' or cannot understand it.

Freedom Flotilla...

First word that cross in my mind is 'DAMN'...very emotional huh. (aku pun tak tahu kenape kebelakangan ini aku dalam 'emotional unstable stage'). Frankly,their action showed the cowardice part of Israeli Government. Today morning, my normal routine before Miss Siti Fatimah starting her CSC class, i will read The Star Online. The interesting news related to Freedom Flotilla is the involvement of Malaysians as a part of it. 11 malaysians are on board the capital ship Mavi Marmara.

The Star, June 01

The Malaysians on Mavi Marmara

List of Malaysians on board the capital ship Mavi Marmara, as provided by NGOs in the press conference:

Noorazman Mohd Samsuddin, chief of Malaysian delegation (UIA lecturer)

Dr Mohd Arba Ai Shawal (medical doctor)

Dr Syed Muhamad Haleem Syed Hassan (medical doctor)

Dr Selamat Aliman, businessman

Jamaluddin Elias (Klang councillor)

Al Hilmi Husain Suhaimi (religious teacher)

Mohd Nizam Mohamad Awang (engineer)

Abd Halim Mohd Redzuan (executive with Syabas)

Ustaz Hasanuddin Aqsi Assarip (full time NGO personnel)

Ashwad Ismail (journalist)

Shamsul Kamal Latip (Astro Awani cameraman).

as a malaysian, i'm really proud with them. Even we cannot go to the Palestine, the most simple thing we can do as a muslim is praying for their safety and hope their mission will success. Insha Allah.

Writing....

Salam. Alhamdullilah...finally Allah open my heart to open blog for everyone..no boundaries or speacialities. HAHAHAH...finally i decided to share my view with the public. Then, this blog will be the greatest path for me to write and share it with the viewer.